He screams or he smiles — but both break you.

Covert or overt—your proof + a stage-matched plan: Stuck / Planning / Leaving / Healing.

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Find Yourself Below

This determines your personalized plan. Click your situation below:

01

I'm stuck with him

You can't leave right now, but you CAN survive safer

If this is you right now

  • Walking on eggshells 24/7
  • Lost all your friends and support
  • 2am anxiety spirals wondering if you're crazy
  • No money saved, nowhere to go
  • Kids are seeing everything
  • Tried leaving before but came back

Your "Survival" Plan

  • Gray-rock phrases that work
  • This week: Secret evidence logging
  • 30 days: Hidden financial prep
  • Emergency: Safe exit protocols
  • Daily: Sanity-saving techniques
  • Kids: Emotional shielding tactics

Ready to survive safer?

BONUS INCLUDED: "How to Survive When You Can't Leave Yet" workbook

02

I'm planning to leave

You've decided to go, but you need to do it RIGHT

If this is you right now

  • Made the decision but don't know where to start
  • Terrified of his reaction when he finds out
  • He controls all the finances
  • Don't know what evidence courts need
  • Everyone says "just leave" but it's complex
  • Need to protect kids through this

Your "Survival" Plan

  • Preparation: Money, documents, timing
  • Scripts: Avoid fights and apology traps
  • Evidence: What judges actually need
  • Financial: Secret savings strategies
  • Legal: Court-safe documentation
  • Children: Preparation without trauma

Ready to plan your escape?

POTENTIAL BONUS: Trauma Bond Recovery Workbook if we detect that pattern.

03

I'm leaving right now

You've started but he's fighting back HARD

If this is you right now

  • He's suddenly "nice" and promises to change
  • Love-bombing with gifts and fake therapy
  • Family saying "give him another chance"
  • He's threatening suicide or self-harm
  • Turning kids against you
  • Second-guessing because he seems "changed"

Your "Survival" Plan

  • Hoover detection: Spot manipulation tactics
  • Boundaries: Stay strong when he's desperate
  • No-contact: When and how to implement
  • Legal safety: Protect your case
  • Kids protection: Shield from manipulation
  • Support network: Handle doubters

Don't let him pull you back

LIKELY BONUS: Trauma Bond Recovery - the final exit is the hardest part

04

I left but can't stop thinking about him

You're free but your mind is still trapped

If this is you right now

  • Can't stop thinking about him despite knowing he's toxic
  • Miss him and feel guilty for leaving
  • Obsessively check his social media
  • Friends don't understand why you're not "over it"
  • He manipulates through co-parenting
  • Feel damaged, wonder if you'll trust again

Your "Survival" Plan

  • Obsession breaking: Stop the mental loops
  • Social media detox: No-contact protocols
  • Identity rebuild: Reclaim who you are
  • Co-parenting: Interact without getting hookede
  • Nervous system: Regulate trauma responses
  • Future relationships: Trust your judgment again

Ready to be truly free?

GUARANTEED BONUS: 30-Day Trauma Bond Recovery Workbook - exactly what you need

List of Steps

1
Clear Verdict

Overt, covert, or mixed — with proof patterns so you finally stop doubting yourself and know the truth.

2
Trauma-Bond Breaker

Why you still crave him despite the abuse — plus daily step-by-step actions to weaken and break the bond.

3
30-Day Survival Plan
Do THIS today, THIS this week, and THIS in 30 days — no theory, just an exact roadmap you can follow.
4
Word-for-Word Scripts

Exact phrases for boundary lines, shutdowns, de-escalation, and documentation that keep you safe and sane.

5
Safety & Shielding

Proven strategies to protect yourself and your children, with emergency checklists and a covert paper trail.

6
Manipulation Decoder
Gaslighting, DARVO, hoovering — named, explained, and exposed so you can spot the traps instantly and disarm them.

100% confidential - he'll never know you got this.

The Cost of Waiting

Your Mental Health

  • Another month of 2am anxiety spirals
  • Deeper self-doubt and confusion
  • Lost sense of who you really are

Your Children

  • Learning this dysfunction is "normal"
  • Absorbing trauma that affects them for life
  • Missing their chance at a peaceful childhood

 Your Life

  • Another year hoping he'll magically change
  • Missing your chance at real happiness
  • The trauma bond getting stronger each day

The Harsh Truth

He will not change. Not after therapy. Not after promises.The only question is: How much more of your life will you sacrifice hoping he will?

Your Complete Package

Less than half a therapy session, 10x more clarity

Clarity Report + Action Plan: $150 $67
Survival Workbook: $27 (when applicable)

Trauma Bond Recovery: $47 (when applicable)

Total Value: $141+

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