Heal from Trauma Bonds with the 30-Day Recovery Workbook
You’re not weak—you’re caught in a chemical addiction. This workbook is your day-by-day system to rewire your brain, stop cravings, and reclaim your peace. Rated 4.79/5 by 2000+ survivors.
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What Is a Trauma Bond?
A trauma bond is a powerful emotional attachment formed through cycles of abuse and kindness. It's like a chemical addiction—your brain releases dopamine during 'good' moments and cortisol during bad ones, making it hard to leave. It's not love; it's survival wiring from manipulation. This workbook helps you recognize and unwind it step by step.
The 30-Day Trauma Bond Recovery Workbook Is for You If...

You keep going back — even when you know it’s destroying you.
You’ve left before, but somehow they pull you back in. You promise yourself “never again,” yet the silence, the guilt, the memories drag you right back.
You feel addicted to them.
You don’t just miss them — you crave them. The highs, the validation, even the chaos. It feels like withdrawal when they’re gone, and peace feels wrong.
You keep blaming yourself.
You replay every fight, every moment, wondering what you could’ve done differently. You’re carrying guilt that was never yours to hold.
You still want their approval.
Even after all the lies and manipulation, part of you still wants them to say, “You were right,” or “I love you.” That need runs deeper than logic — it’s trauma.
You can’t stop thinking about them.
No matter how hard you try to move on, they live rent-free in your mind. It’s like they’ve wired themselves into your nervous system.
You feel broken without them.
It’s not just heartbreak — it’s identity loss. You don’t know who you are without the push-pull chaos that defined your world.
You minimize what happened.
You tell yourself it wasn’t abuse because they never hit you. But the truth is — emotional abuse leaves deeper scars, the kind no one else can see.
You’re scared of the calm.
When things are finally quiet, you don’t feel peace — you feel panic. You’re waiting for the next blow, because peace feels unsafe.
You know it’s toxic, but you can’t let go.
You see the truth, yet you still feel drawn to them. That’s the trauma bond — the cruel illusion that pain means connection.
You want to break free… but don’t know how.
You’ve read, cried, journaled — but nothing sticks. Because breaking a trauma bond isn’t about willpower. It’s about rewiring your nervous system — step by step.
You keep checking their social media.
Even when you swear you’re done, you still peek — hoping they’ll miss you, or terrified they’ve moved on. Every scroll reopens the wound, but you can’t stop. That’s the grip of the bond.
You’re tired of surviving. You want peace.
You’ve had enough of crying yourself to sleep, of begging your body to forget. You don’t just want to “heal” — you want to feel safe in your own mind again.

Fahim Chughtai
Fahim Chughtai is a narcissistic abuse specialist with years of experience helping survivors break free from toxic relationships. Through narcissismexposed.com, he provides personalized tools and support. He helped 2000+ People to break Trauma Bonds in Substack Commmunity.
2000+ People Used 30 Day Trauma Bond Recovery Workbook
How the 30-Day Trauma Bond Recovery Workbook Helps You Heal
Breaking a trauma bond isn’t about “thinking positive” or “just moving on.”
It’s about rewiring your nervous system, reclaiming your mind, and teaching your body that safety doesn’t have to feel like danger anymore.
This workbook guides you through that transformation — one day at a time.

Week 1 — Awareness & Detox
You’ll finally understand why you keep going back, why you miss someone who hurt you, and how the trauma bond hijacked your brain.
You’ll start detoxing emotionally — breaking the illusion that pain equals love.
You stop asking, “Why did they do this to me?”
And start asking, “Why do I keep feeling pulled back — and how can I stop?”
Week 2 — Nervous System Reset
Your body has been living in fight, flight, or freeze for too long.
This phase helps you calm your triggers, release constant hypervigilance, and rebuild a sense of safety without needing their approval or presence.
You’ll use practical exercises, guided reflections, and somatic tools to regulate your body — not just your thoughts.
Week 3 — Emotional Reprogramming
Now that your nervous system starts to trust peace, you’ll rewrite the subconscious beliefs that kept you bonded:
“I can’t survive without them.”
“Love means suffering.”
“I’ll never find someone else.”
Each day gently helps you dismantle these lies and rebuild a new internal language of worth and boundaries.
Week 4 — Reconnection & Rebirth
By now, the fog begins to clear. You’ll start reconnecting with your real self — your desires, your identity, your peace.
You’ll learn how to stop relapsing into old trauma loops, recognize emotional red flags, and rebuild your life from clarity, not chaos.
This isn’t just recovery — it’s rebirth.
You’re not the same person who begged for breadcrumbs.
You’re the one finally learning to feed your own soul.
Benefits of the 30-Day Trauma Bond Recovery Workbook
This workbook isn’t just about “healing.”
It’s about finally breaking the invisible chain that keeps you emotionally tied to the person who hurt you — and giving you back control over your heart, your mind, and your peace.
Here’s what you’ll experience when you work through it day by day

1. Emotional Clarity
You’ll finally understand what happened to you — not in vague terms, but in the exact psychological patterns that trapped you.
The fog lifts. The confusion fades. You start seeing the truth without guilt or denial.
2. Freedom From Obsessive Thoughts
No more replaying every conversation or wondering what they’re doing.
You’ll retrain your brain to stop chasing closure from them — and find peace within yourself.
3. Nervous System Regulation
You’ll learn how to calm panic attacks, body tension, and emotional flashbacks.
Each exercise helps your body remember what safety feels like again — after months or years of chaos.
4. Reduced Cravings for the Abuser
Through daily reflection and emotional detox, your body stops craving their attention, validation, or messages.
You’ll finally feel the freedom of not needing them anymore.
5. Emotional Balance & Inner Peace
The workbook teaches you how to break the cycle of highs and lows — so you can live in emotional steadiness instead of constant anxiety and collapse.
6. Boundaries That Actually Hold
You’ll rebuild your self-trust and learn to enforce boundaries without guilt or fear.
No more over-explaining, defending, or walking on eggshells.
What's Inside the Workbook

Panic Stoppers
90-second techniques to halt anxiety and cravings.
3AM Rescue Protocols
Steps to survive midnight panic spirals and stay no-contact.
Relapse Shields
“Contact Firewall” to prevent 90% of relapses.
Memory Repair
End the “good moments” loop keeping you hooked.
Identity Reset
Rebuild your sense of self before the narcissist.
Special Features
Emergency Contact Card, Moments of Weakness Guide, Milestones.
Survivors Who Found Freedom
Rated 4.79/5 by survivors who transformed their lives with this workbook.

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I honestly didn’t think a workbook could change how I saw my situation, but this one did. Every page felt like it was written by someone who truly understands what it’s like to be trauma bonded. By Day 10, I was already seeing the pattern for what it was — not love, but control. I’m finally healing.
Emily Patterson
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I’ve read countless books on narcissistic abuse, but none gave me daily direction the way this workbook does. It’s not just theory — it’s structured, practical, and forces you to reflect deeply. I carried it everywhere for 30 days, and now I can honestly say I’m not the same person who started it. I found Fahim chughtai on Substack.
Jason Miller
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This workbook became my nightly ritual. The reflection prompts felt like therapy on paper. It helped me rebuild my sense of self after years of gaslighting. I cried on Day 7, smiled on Day 15, and felt peace on Day 30. Worth every cent.
Sarah Nguyen
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I was trapped in a trauma bond for over a decade. No therapist ever broke it down like this book did. The “push-pull cycle” section hit me so hard I had to put it down and breathe. Now I understand my body wasn’t addicted to them — it was addicted to survival.
Daniel Harper
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I used to wake up every morning missing the person who hurt me. This workbook helped me detach emotionally in a way I didn’t think was possible. The section on “withdrawal from chaos” hit so hard. I finally understand what peace feels like.
Jenna Patel
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I started reading your posts on Substack during my lowest point. That’s where I first heard the term trauma bond. This workbook took everything you wrote and turned it into a daily healing map. I finally stopped mistaking pain for connection. I owe my freedom to this.
Emily Ross
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I kept seeing your short videos pop up on my feed, and every one hit deeper. I finally bought the workbook, and I’m glad I did. It explained trauma bonding better than therapy ever did. The part about emotional addiction changed everything for me.
Marcus Lee
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I was binge-watching breakup videos, and one of your Shorts stopped me cold. The workbook took that one truth — that trauma bonding feels like withdrawal — and helped me live through it.
By the end, I didn’t just survive the silence — I embraced it.
Chloe Ramirez
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That thread described me word for word. This workbook helped me get through the nights when my brain begged me to text her. It taught me how to separate my trauma response from love. I don’t chase pain anymore.
Ethan Williams
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You said in one of your reels, “The calm after abuse isn’t peace — it’s withdrawal.” That line made me cry. I bought the workbook that night. The daily reflections helped me sit with the silence instead of running back to it. I’m finally free.
Leah Thompson
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I subscribed to your channel months ago, but this workbook is what got me out of the cycle. It’s not sugarcoated — it’s real work. The journaling sections were brutal but healing. I went from obsessing over her to understanding myself.
Carlos Rivera
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Your Threads posts always hit where it hurts — and heals. The workbook was like those posts multiplied by 30 days. I didn’t just read about breaking the trauma bond — I actually felt it happening. My daughter said, “You smile differently now.” That says it all.
Amanda Greene
Frequently Asked Questions
It’s a guided, step-by-step system designed to help you break the emotional addiction to a narcissist or toxic partner.
Each day takes you through a short but powerful process — combining trauma-informed psychology, somatic regulation tools, and deep reflection prompts — to help you calm your nervous system, release obsession, and rebuild self-trust.
Most resources talk about trauma bonds — this one walks you through breaking them.
It doesn’t just give advice — it rewires the emotional cycle that keeps you trapped. You’ll move from understanding the abuse to emotionally detaching from it.
Yes — especially if you can’t leave yet.
This workbook helps you create internal safety, emotional distance, and psychological protection even while you’re still in contact. It gives you the survival tools you need before you can fully walk away.
Then this workbook is for you.
You’ll learn why your body still feels “pulled back,” even when your mind knows it’s over — and how to finally break that cycle for good.
Most survivors spend 10–20 minutes per day.
It’s not about speed — it’s about consistency. Each day builds on the previous one, creating real emotional change by the end of 30 days.
You’ll stop craving the abuser’s attention.
You’ll feel calmer, grounded, and emotionally detached.
You’ll understand why you stayed — and you’ll stop blaming yourself for it.
By Day 30, you’ll have a new sense of peace — the kind that doesn’t depend on anyone else.
Absolutely.
The workbook is gender-neutral and focused on survivor psychology, not gender roles. Anyone who’s experienced manipulation, gaslighting, or trauma bonding will benefit deeply.
Instantly after purchase.
You’ll get a downloadable PDF that you can print, read on any device, or fill digitally. No waiting, no shipping — your recovery starts the moment you order.
That’s exactly who this workbook is for.
No contact helps with distance — this workbook helps with detachment.
It teaches your mind and body to stop craving what hurt you, even if you’ve already gone no contact but still feel emotionally trapped.
That’s okay. Healing isn’t a race.
You’ll have lifetime access to the workbook — go at your own pace. Even if it takes 60 or 90 days, you’ll still get the same transformation.
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